Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Synchronicity - life in the balance

Some days, you just get your socks blown right off. When it happens on a dark day, so much the better. Because that’s just synchronicity and universal grace at work.

I woke up this morning in a thorough state of gloom, stressed out and despairing. The current socio-political climate in South Africa is enough to drive anyone to drink and/or distraction.

The murder, purportedly over a wage dispute, of Afrikaner rightwing extremist leader, Eugene Terre’blanche has created a pivotal and dangerous moment in modern South African history. Murder is bad and common enough in South Africa, especially farm murders (it is estimated that between 1000 and 3000 white farmers have been killed since the ANC came to power), but the situation is inflamed by the constant singing of an anti-apartheid struggle song, which includes the lyrics “kill the boer”, by the leader of the ANC Youth League, Julius Malema. ("Boer" is the Afrikaans word for "farmer", but is also used as a derogatory term for any white person.) It’s not like this benighted country needs people stirring up racial disharmony and animosity and picking on ethnic minorities – there’s quite enough of that as it is (remember the xenophobia I wrote about a couple of years ago). While a court order banned Malema from singing the song, citing it as “hate speech”, it didn’t stop him, and moreover, the ANC sided with him when they vowed to fight the ban. As you can imagine, racial tensions are running high and it would seem like all the good work done in the very early years of democracy by real leaders like Nelson Mandela and Desmond Tutu are being rapidly undone – and by the ANC itself. I was going to write a lengthy post on the subject, but instead let me refer you to the press release from the South African Institute of Race Relations – a liberal and respected think tank – which pretty much sums it up.
(Thank goodness the ANC have today told Malema to stop singing the song - though whether he listens will be another matter.)

Now let me give you the flip side. Having been out, I came home to find a receipt from the post office and duly trotted off to collect my parcel.

Oh what joy! What generosity of spirit! And it couldn’t have happened on a more apt day.

You will recall that a few posts ago I blogged about artist Sara-J, whose work is just so rich, so vivid and, despite the humour, so profound. Since I commissioned my gorgeous painting from her, Sara-J has had several sales.


My totally delicious Sara-J oil painting

She’s wanting to leave the Netherlands and move to France where she’s found herself the perfect studio. But she’s needed to raise additional funds after one of her principal backers let her down. Because I love her work and because I wanted to help, I decided, despite the mutterings of my piggy bank, to buy two small prints.


Craig's Lillies

Summer Lillies

Nice, aren’t they!?

But imagine my delight and surprise when I opened the parcel and discovered not just the two etchings I’d ordered, but three more – a proof of “St Joseph’s”, 1/75 (i.e. a first print) of “St Joseph’s 2” and, joy of joys a wonderfully colourful etching of “Nasturtiums” which I’d considered buying but in the interests of the grizzling piggy bank had refrained from doing.


St Josephs

St Josephs 2

Nasturtiums

I am blown away by Sara-J’s generosity and kindness – and the pictures and her thoughtfulness could not have come on a better day!

Here is someone who not only creates the most stunning art, but who also has a big and wonderful heart. She said, in the note she sent with the pictures, that she wanted to thank me for doing a blog post about her work and for the advice I’d sent her, courtesy of the wonderful Tessa Edwards of Aerial Armadillo, about online galleries where she might promote her work. For me, helping Sara-J was pure pleasure, and her art, which already adorns my walls, was thanks enough, so I am, on one of the rare occasions in my life, left speechless.

All I can say is, “Sara-J – thank you! You are very special and totally wonderful!”

For those of you reading this, do me a favour, and please take another look at Sara-J’s website if you’ve not already done so – and consider buying yourself a little treat! You won’t regret it!

20 comments:

Angela said...

I love generous people, and I`m so glad you received all thos ebeautiful paintings today, Nicky! I read about the killing, and also the press article, and I am truly worried. In July/August my daughter and her husband plan to visit Cape Town and Krüger Park, and I am not sure I want to let them go! Sigh. What do you say?

Nicky S (Absolute Vanilla) said...

It'll be no consolation if I say I'm worried to, Geli. I do believe they will keep a lid on things for the World Cup but at the same time it's an event which gives every lunatic in the world a prime stage. It should be okay, but I won't put my head on a block and say that. This is such a strange time and it really all depends on how the ANC respond - if they step up and really "lead" it should be fine, if they keep dithering and doing nothing, then...
Sorry, not a very useful answer, is it.

Fire Byrd said...

What a wonderful collection you now have. I did check out Sarah Js work last time you posted about her. I would love to own one of her pics, but I just don't have the resources any more.
Have a wonderful hols, and send birthday greetings to your man from me.
xx

lakeviewer said...

It's always wonderful to find your post, for the thoughtfulness of subject matter, and the spirit of generosity enbedded all over the place.

Jenny Woolf said...

Your post made me think. For me, small examples of generosity and kindness usually outweigh the big nasties happening in the wider world. I don't know if this is a bad thing (no sense of perspective) or a good one (looking on the bright side ).

What lovely pictures. She is very talented!

Baino said...

Ah get out of there. No good will come of it. Sadly little South African news hits even our multi cultural channel, it's like you're all lost in the wilderness, lost and forgotten.

Beautiful gift though, do you have enough walls to hang all that? I love Lillies.

Nicky S (Absolute Vanilla) said...

I know, FireByrd - I'm becoming a Sara-J gallery in my own right! :-) Looking forward to the hols and thank you for remembering that it will be D's birthday at that time too - how do you do it - I'm so pants about these things, nearly forgot it was our anniversary yesterday! xxx

Oh thank you so much, Lakeviewer, what a wonderfully kind thing to say! xx

Jenny, I think it's always better to look to the good as the bad can become so overwhelming and self perpetuating if we let it.

I'm trying, Baino, I'm trying but there's not just me that has to be packed up!
And erm, I'm rapidly running out of walls - am thinking I need to build a gallery! LOL!

SueG said...

How lovely, both the paintings and the sentiment. There is something about the way artists can look after each other that makes so much of the shite worth while, don't you think? I'll go check out her site now...

Janet said...

WOW!!! SAPO delivered. . . . (ja, I'm still miffed about my stolen parcels. Poor Angela is trying again - I hope her gift gets to me this time)

Fabulous prints!

I do think visitors to SA will be safe over the next few months - as long as they use common-sense.

Meanwhile as a South African who is not keen to leave the shores - Cry our beloved country

Nicky S (Absolute Vanilla) said...

I suspect we look after each other, Sue, because we know what it's like to feel a little removed from the mainstream. Birds of a feather, and all that. Do hope you enjoy a mooch around Sara-J's website!

Oh no, Janet, did Geli send you stuff and it went missing?! Awful. Touch wood, I've never had that problem but I do know stuff can sometimes take forever to get here - especially if it ends up in customs.
I think re SA the important thing to note is that the JSE hasn't even registered a blip and the rand remains stronger than it has for while. I suspect, taking a logical step back, that we're really seeing the loony fringe in action and so you're right, foreigners should be fine provided they're sensible. But the ANC really do need to start leading.

Janet said...

Yip Geli did and one went missing. Now she's sending me a gift for my Baked Beans Jubilee adventure which we're hoping I receive.

Leadership magazine has an interesting article which makes me feel slight better, but much troubled water still to pass under the bridge
http://www.leader.co.za/article.aspx?s=6&f=1&a=1827

Nicky S (Absolute Vanilla) said...

I hope the gift arrives, Janet - bloody international postal systems!

Re the article, thanks for the link - a very interesting read. I think what I find really bothering are the following comments - because this is where the rot sits - and it's about corruption and money making for a few at the expense of everyone else.

"Money is the main reason for supporting someone or criticising him. The aim is to capture the ANC in order to capture the State - usually for narrow, personal economic goals..."

and

Jeremy Cronin warns political debate and decision-making are becoming increasingly directed by a "dangerous axis between unscrupulous business people (black and white) on the one hand and a bullying, chauvinistic, populist tendency in parts of our movement on the other".

Cronin adds: "Behind the headline stories of high-life parties and the flaunting of ill-gained wealth lies the sordid reality of manipulative sponsorships, wheeling and dealing, organisational factionalism, arm-twisting and the general subversion of our democratic order."

That, to my mind, speaks of the classic corruption you find in all nations where democracy has failed dismally. A few benefit at the cost of the majority. There surely has to be a happier and fairer median.

Janet said...

As I said "lots of troubled water still to flow"

I ain't a JZ fan --- ever, so anything talking about post-JZ gets my attention.

Meanwhile ... onwards
:o)
have a peachy day

Marion said...

Wow. I love the paintings and will visit Sara as soon as I leave here! Isn't it wonderful how the Universe works...there are days when I wake up full of doom and gloom at a situation I can't do anything much about...and then I receive something loving and good. Love it!

Rob Inukshuk said...

Love Sara-J's stuff and how wonderful to be moving to a studio in France...I could like that!

As for the other stuf, not good and more writing on the wall for sure!

Carol said...

There is enough doom and gloom in the world so I'm going to focus on the positive!!

What an amazing gift...isn't it just wonderful when someone does something lovely and unexpected!! I shall go check out her website...

C x

karen said...

Lovely paintings, and what a wonderful gesture to send a little extra, too!

As for the SA problems, it makes me just feel so sad! I know I'm late commenting here, but I watched Malema laying into the BBC reporter on TV this morning and felt quite sick about the entire situation. I am holding my breath for after the funeral, and pray for what it's worth that the ANC as you say can step up and Lead, and that all involved can keep calm.

I also feel that visitors should not feel discouraged about the world cup, and hope that they don't stay away!

Nicky S (Absolute Vanilla) said...

Janet, I guess my concern is that post-JZ will be no better and possibly worse...
Peachy days and a plummy weekend to you too! ;-)

Hope you enjoyed Sara-J's site, Marion! :-)

Just heard from Sara-J yesterday, Rob, that the bank has refused funding for the studio in France - how devastating is that for her!

Am trying hard to focus on the positve too, Carol, sometimes it's a challenge!

I also saw the laying into on E-News last night, Karen, utterly appalling. I read a report in the Guardian this morning where not only is he compared by a few eminent black South Africans with Mugabe but also with Hitler...! As for the ANC stepping up and leading, I lose hope daily - it appears they are only motivated by money.
Ironically, the only party making any sense at the moment is the SACP...

Lori ann said...

I read the press release the other day via Janet, and I saw the comparisons to Hitler. I don't know, it sounds like bandaids on gaping wounds and flimsy ones at that. SA is a beautiful country with beautiful people. I pray for enlightenment.

and then! You are indeed lucky to have gotten those prints, this is what i like to believe about people the most, they are generous and kind, given half a chance! What you did was lovely too Nicky, helping Sara-J. I love when everyones happy!

xxx lori

Crystal Jigsaw said...

Very nice paintings indeed, totally agree. That's very worrying for white farmers, being one myself. How dreadful a way to live.

CJ xx