Thursday, April 30, 2009

Goodbye, Ms Bo

Ms Bo on her "inside" perch

It's not how we'd planned it and it's not how we expected it to happen. But nature takes her own course in these things and I'm trying to be pragmatic about it - despite a sleepless, fretful night.

Yes, the inevitable has happened - Ms Bo has escaped, never to be seen again, I suspect.

Strangely, we've been saying for the last two weeks that it's probably time for us to seriously consider setting her free - that was, after all, always the intention. We were hoping to take her to the avian vet on Saturday for a check up and a final verdict on her state of well being and then we were going to open the door to her pen, one day when the Ba-Kaaka Nostra were present, and let her go.

Bo and the Ba-Kaaka Nostra a couple of weeks ago

The reality is that we could never have kept Ms Bo - she was wild from the start and intended to stay that way - a fact that became deeply apparent a couple of months back when we had painters at the house. Although they denied it, we think one of them terrorised her because since then Ms Bo's attitude to humans was one of utter panic. Guinea fowl are neurotic at the best of times, but Ms Bo took to working herself into a frenzy anytime anyone came remotely near Le Palais de Beau Bo - and she took to hiding out in the "hutch" we built on to the back of her house when anyone got to close. Once in there though she obviously felt safe, as she'd suffer having her back stroked by me on occasions and seemed to enjoy being crooned at and told she was a beautiful girl who'd grow up to be queen of all the guinea fowl...
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Bo's first villa - Bo Vers 0.1

And although the avian vet had suggested that we could keep Bo as a pet, both we and Bo knew that Bo was a wild thing. So, as I say, the intention remained to find a suitable time, when we thought she was strong enough, and release her. But so much for the best laid plans.

Yesterday evening D took Bo her worms and for some reason didn't shut the door of the pen behind him. Although he usually shuts the door behind him, it's not necessarily a problem if he doesn't as Bo doesn't tend to make bids to escape. But this time, as he leaned underneath her to drop her mealworms in the scratching tray, she eyed the open door, whizzed over his head and was out. There was no thought of even trying to catch her - it would have been hopeless. We hoped that if we left her, she'd find herself a spot for the night, settle down and reappear in the morning. (Very often guinea fowl that have been raised by humans and then set free will be quite content to never leave the sanctuary of their garden.)

We watched nervously as Bo pootled around the garden for a few minutes - and then eyed the wall - the one over which the Ba-Kaaka Nostra fly every day. Bear in mind Ms Bo has not had much exercise at flying any great heights, but she stood there contemplating the wall and then in a flurry of wings was up and gone.

At first we thought she'd gone straight over the wall until frantic searches in the road revealed nothing - and then I spotted her shuffling on a thick gum branch some ten feet above the ground. She seemed to be settling in for the night so we left her to it. It was nearly dark and there was nothing we could do. We left the door of her pen open, put out plenty of seed and hoped for the best.

This morning there was no sign of her and although the Ba-Kaaka Nostra turned up for breakfast and although there was a juvenile guinea fowl that flew down from the very top of the tallest gum to join them, and although we hoped that it was Bo, closer inspection of the photos I shot (for confirmation) show that it was most likely not her.

Juvenile guinea fowl, almost certainly not Bo


Bo has four distinctions about her - she has two white claws, a badly damaged left nostril from constantly banging it against the wire of the pen, a deformed breast bone and very rasping voice. But she'd need to call out or one would need to get really close to be able to identify her. And the bird above's face just isn't Ms Bo's - as much as we wanted it to be.

So, we have no idea where she is and we can only hope that she will be okay. Whether she will survive or not out there on her own, who knows - but I'm not holding my breath. Her best bet would be to integrate with another group of guinea fowl - a lone guinea doesn't stand much chance - and bear in mind that Bo has never been out of our garden - has no experience of dogs and cats, let alone cars. We can only know that we did our best for her and that without us she would never have got this far. And as D says, better one day free as a lion than a lifetime penned up as a sheep. So here's hoping that whatever freedom Ms Bo is enjoying or did enjoy, it's good.

Finally the story that started here with this wee and ailing guinea fowl keet...

Bo Peep, an abandoned guinea keet, unable to fledge

Bo Peep, rescued and learning to leap

Ms Bo, munching on a snail

Ooh, bugs, yum!


...ends here with these shots taken just two days ago.

Ms Bo, a nearly fully grown guinea fowl


I'm glad I had the chance to give her one last stroke yesterday and tell her what a beautiful girl she is.

Be safe, be wild and be free, Ms Bo.

31 comments:

Carol and Chris said...

Awwww...that brought a tear to my eye. You gave her a good start in life and that's worth it's weight in gold...her natural instincts will kick in and I'm sure she'll be fine :-)

*hugs*

C x

Absolute Vanilla (and Atyllah) said...

Thanks for the hug, Carol, feeling decidedly sad today - and of course, despite trying to be very pragmatic about it, one can't helping wondering where she is and if she's okay.
xx

Ann Victor said...

Hamba kahle, Ms Bo.

R.L. Bourges said...

the best laid plans indeed, a v. Hope it works out for Ms Bo. Hug to you.

Mellifluous Dark said...

That's lovely, AV. She may come back and visit, you never know...

Well done you.

Val said...

oh my word!!! I am sure she will be fine but that doesnt make it easier for the anxious parents x
she was obviously ready to go and just think how lovely when she does come back - and with her own little flock... good thing that those painters made her scared of people too!
big hugs xx

Tessa said...

Yes, hamba kahle, dear Ms. Bo. May your adventures be good ones. Stay safe, little speckled fowl. Nicky, my heart goes out to you. I, too, send you a warm hug. I do so understand how you feel - I lost a clutch of my much beloved bantams to a hungry fox and I was more gutted than I ever believed possible.

Siobhán said...

Unexpected perhaps, but still sounds like a happy ending for Ms Bo.

JaneyV said...

I know that you wanted to hand her safely over to the care of the BKN but she chose her own path. I do hope that when she acclimatizes to her new surroundings she gets a hankering for mealworms and comes on back to visit.

Remember what a fighter she is and what a will to survive she has. Maybe next Spring she'll be bringing her own keets back to your garden.

Absolute Vanilla (and Atyllah) said...

Thanks, Ann.

I hope so too, RL.

We can but hope, MD.

Yep, Val, at least she'll be wary of the "bad men"! And I do so hope that she does come back one day though I'm not sure about her ability to breed - we'll just have to wait and see, I guess.
xx

It's amazing how we get attached to these wee things, isn't it, Tessa and they take a bit of your heart with them when they go - however they go. Thanks for the hug xx

I hope so, Siobhan.

I hope so too, Janey, on both counts!

Fire Byrd said...

I was fine till I got to the last line.... that was so sad.
But she is where she needs to be, however that is for her.And hopefully she because of her tenacious spirit she will survive
xx

i am storm. said...

i have never been so attached to an animal i never met. i think there are many of us who came to love bo through your stories.

i tensed and held my breath as i started reading your blog today. i prepared for the worst.

that bo is free, is wonderful. i understand your fears for her and i completely understand how much you must miss her. as you said though, this is what you were hoping for, for her.

can you imagine her joy at feeling the wind as she flies? the wonder at all the new experiences -- the new animals, new scents, new tastes. whatever happens, she will experience more in this new chapter than she ever could in her fancy custom condo.

happy travels bo,

storm

lakeviewer said...

isn't the saying, be safe, be wild and be free, the same things our mothers said when we left them?

(Well, a correction, my mother never said 'be wild'. She said, 'be a saint'.)

She is in her world now, for better or for worse. Mothers don't know when it is time to let go, either.

Marie said...

That's sad. I'm sure she'll be OK though.

laughingwolf said...

stay well and safe, wee bo...

Lane said...

So sad. I know D is absolutely right - far better she have her chance in the wild - but still. From a selfish point of view, I shall miss her updates.

She's a fiesty little thing. I'm sure she'll give her new life a damn good go.

And you gave her the opportunity to get that far.

Rambler said...

I hope she is ok

Lori ann said...

ah Nicky, now your an empty nester like me (well, I am almost!) I miss Bo and all the updates of her.But I guess she knew it was her time to fly...
go safely Bo!
♥ lots of love,Lori

A Cuban In London said...

Well, Ms Bo, wherever you are and wherever you go, I wish you luck.

Many thanks.

Greetings from London.

Pat Posner said...

Very tearful here, too, I know just how you feel.
But I'm sure it was Ms Bo's natural instincts kicking in and telling her it was time to go into the big wide world.
I think she'll be back to visit - I really, truly do. When the hedgehog we'd reared from being a teeny soft-prickled baby chose to go, after five years, I was devastated and thought he'd never cope on his own. But the following year he was back with a hedgehog family of his own.
I know it was him, no truly wild hedgie would have bustled up to me and climbed up my leg making little snorting noises.

So, 'Happy flying and new friend making, Ms Bo. And make sure you return for a visit.'

Hugs, AV, and never forget what a brilliant start to life you gave Ms Bo.

HelenMHunt said...

Ah, bless her heart x

Rob Inukshuk said...

Bye bye Bo - good luck and happy trails.

Baino said...

Awww . .sad that you didn't have the opportunity to give her the release you intended but she looks big and healthy enough. You'd be surprised AV. I had a little crested pigeon that flew into the house a couple of weeks ago, chased by a nasty bird. It was so stunned that I picked it up with a tea towel and no resistance. I felt sure it was going to die. It wasn't injured, just terrified. I put it in a quiet dark corner on the verandah for the best part of the day and just before dusk, went to check on it and gave it such a fright that it flew confidently into the distance. You did all you could - and much more than most. She wouldn't have had a chance without your intervention. Fingins crossed she's found a new tribe . .

Squirrel said...

well, I hope she finds some guinea fowl group to join, I think she will. Whatever happens, she wanted to see what was out there and have a bit of an outside the coop adventure and some fun.

Ropi said...

I am sorry about this case.

Crystal Jigsaw said...

That was quite a heart-breaking post. I just want to think that she will be okay and survival will come easy to her. But she's been well looked after by you in the meantime.

CJ xx

VioletSky said...

Aww, it was Miss Bo's story that first had me coming back for more and more of your blog. She does sound a very determined little thing. She just wanted to make the move herself, I guess. (don't we all, before getting what seems to us 'thrown out'?)

Megan said...

Well, here's wishing good luck to her on her journey. You gave her a great start.

Best of luck, Bo! Fly free and strong and safe!

Lola said...

Oh, Nicky that was very touching. What a sweet, lovely, positive and heartwarming story. Bo is peeping away, free and thankful of your love and nurturing care. Hamba kahle!

Ciao

Absolute Vanilla (and Atyllah) said...

Just to say thank you to everyone for your kind and reassuring words about Ms Bo's departure - and my apologies for not reply individually - the last few days have been somewhat fraught by bureaucratic bungling and the nightmare that is often other people...
Since her departure there has been absolutely no sign of Ms Bo - so whether she is okay or not, no one knows. She is certainly not with the Ba-Kaaka Nostra or any of the other groups that feed in the garden. One can but hope she has found her own family or own group and if not, that she enjoyed her brief burst of freedom. It breaks my heart to think she may not have made it, because with a spirit and a will to live that strong, she deserves to be flying free for a very long time.
Life can be such a very odd thing.

Vesper said...

What a moving moment, Nicky, so full of emotion. In a way not unlike watching a child leave home...
Think that you've done all that you could for her, without you she couldn't have survived and grown into a beautiful bird.
xoxoxo